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@alum

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I agree 110% with everything you said. I think most people have been especially impressed with ZTA's, ADPi's and Pi Phi's PCs for the exact reason that you stated- many of their NMs got dropped from Old Row houses only because they didn't have the HS "connections", but still had amazing looks/polished appearances, outstanding personalities, awesome grades, great activities, volunteer work etc, and glowing recs. These girls will really contribute a lot to their organizations, and have a wonderful experience with their sisters. Meanwhile, as you said, Old Row will continue to take girls from the same high schools and try to keep their clique together, but because they overlook so many amazing PNMs, the girls they do get often aren't the most productive or valued members. It's sad, really. College is the time to figure out who you really are, try new things, meet new and different people, and just force yourself out of your comfort zone-and your sisters should be the ones encouraging and supporting you doing these things, not trying to stifle it.