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I did not pledge a bottom house, but I did pledge a solid middle tier house and on the bid day retreat I have a few second thoughts. It was not second guessing the status of the house, but if this specific house was a right fit for me and if I really made a choice as the persuasion of older girls I knew that rushed me hard versus my second choice that is another solid middle tier house for pref... Honestly PLEASE GIVE IT SOMETIME. It will be completely different once school starts, swap season happens, football season will finally be here, and most importantly you will get into your own routine with school and all. It will be different. Get a chance to led your mind be open and get to know the girls. I had a slight second guess, but after school started I bonded with my pledge class and the older girls... I could not imagine my life without choosing that path, I did make the right choice. I would not have made some of the amazing friends that were put into my life through my sorority. Please do not the tier or ranking be a determining factor as to why you drop. I get it as a freshman status seems so important, but the older you get the less people care and just hang out with you... Well because you are yourself, and they like you. As a junior no one gave a care, I have friends in every sorority, that are my best friends. Give it sometime and if you do not mesh with the girls, then okay. Wait to see how it is once school starts though, my bet is you will feel different.