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Poster Name:
Actives Too

Poster Message:
Bid Day is a very emotional time for PNM's and also for actives. Actives are exhausted too. This is the most important thing they will do all year, it's crucial to get it right, and they have worked incredibly hard and been emotionally invested for months. Members who have just completed their first rush as an active, on the 'other side,' aren't prepared for the reality of it all any more than the PNM's. Not only are they emotional when they find out their favorite girls aren't running home to them, they can even be upset about who did or didn't come to pref the night before. And there can be an awful lot of behind-the scenes snapping at each other and hurt feelings and emotional displays within the membership due to the sheer stress they have been under, which can really affect how they are feeling about each other on Bid Day. Every single one of them is ready to just have it over with and finally put it behind them and relax and get back to normal. It will all be okay, it always is, and everyone will recharge and calm down and repair relationships, and begin to enjoy their house again. So PNM's, don't let a bad Bid Day stop you from jumping in and doing your best to make it work.