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By pref round I only had 1 house, that I didn’t particularly like, so I didn’t have the luxury of choosing a house but I had always wanted to be in a sorority so I decided to just see it through... I’ve grown to really like and appreciate my house but I’ve really struggled with making close friends in it. I have casual friends in the house that I sit with at chapter and go to fundraisers with and whatnot but the friendships are completely surface level. And over the years I’ve tried to get to know other girls and the house and get closer with the girls I already knew but it just doesn’t work out. I have a handful of good friends in a house that kept me until pref and I know my Greek life experience would’ve been so much different if I had joined that house. Ultimately, I think that the “trust the process” saying is true but there will always be questions about what could’ve happened. There are lots of girls who wonder how much “better” things could’ve been in a different house and that’s okay. I know this is going to be sappy but at the end of the day, the house I’m in now has changed me for the better despite all the “what if’s.”