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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />To the girls who think they don’t have friends <br /><br /> Poster Message:
I am seeing a lot heartbreaking posts about girls who feel like they aren’t connecting with their pledge class or sorority right away or they’re concerned they don’t have friends yet. So girls, if this is you, listen up! I am a senior active this year, I honestly didn’t find my close group of friends until sophomore year, and even then (and now) it still changes. Yes, I have my best friends, but I also have made new friendships every year I have been here and I have lost some along the way (which is OK). EVERYONE is struggling. Even that instate girl who is a triple legacy that you think has it all cut out for her. She is struggling. She moved away from home, all her friends went to a different college, she doesn’t know who she can and can’t trust yet, she’s figuring it out too, just like you. Bid day was 3 days ago, please do not worry about if you have a friend group or not yet. True friendships take time to form and you will find real and good friends. They may be in your PC, they may be an older girl who takes you under her wing, they may be on your dorm floor, they may be in another sorority. Some of my best friends are in different sororities - but we met because we were both Greek. Some of my best friends are in different PCs - but we met because we were both Greek. Please do not get yourself worked up over this. It is the third day. You have four years and a lifetime after to make friends. Friends don’t happen overnight and they can’t be forced. Be yourself, put yourself out there, and be the kind of friend to others that you want in your life.