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THIS!

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Yes! This is how it's done at Bama in most houses I'd guess. I know it was in ours. And it's a bad way of doing it. At my sisters school, her chapter (same sorority as mine) actually voted on every single girl. Yes, it took forever but they had the chance to stand up for someone. It was all done behind the curtain. I'm not lying when I tell you I loved girls that I rushed, gave them perfect scores yet they were dropped. Not every time but often- way too often. Then we had girls come back who nobody even knew or advocated for. Maybe they were from the chapter advisor or recruitment chair's hometown, maybe her Mom's friend's daughter, and so on. So don't take it personally. It's a racket at UA and very very unfair to the sisters in the house who are forced to have these long conversations, and be the face of the one that dropped them. And the members don't like it either. It is specifically unfair to Sophomores and some Juniors who are doing the bulk of recruiting, following and commenting on Instagram, but then ignored once they turn in their scores. It's a mess. It's unfair. Don't take it to heart. It's NOT you. If you feel you had a good conversation YOU DID. It's this messed up rigged system. "Trust the Process" is a bunch of crap. THIS is the process.