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Poster Name:
confused

Poster Message:
I have had almost no contact with my Rho Chi since Monday morning except for when the party cards are handed out and am not in Tut so have no one around to ask questions of. I think my rush is going well since I got 12 parties after the first cut and 7 for skits. I am also very happy that my top two choice which seem to be excellent houses with great grades have kept me so far. My problem is that I am having trouble finding a good fit for my 3rd choice for pref. I have only 2 more of my picks left - the other houses I am invited back are houses I have cut - I just can't make a connection with these girls which would make me feel like spending 4 years with them. My 2 secondary choices are not making me really want to add them on my card either after this latest visit. Should I pick one of my middle 2 houses for my 3rd spot for pref? How am I then obligated to that house? If I am lucky enough to be invited back to my 2 top house that will be great but can these houses I keep cutting ask me back again and if I don't want to go am I out of this? Also, if I am lucky enough to go to pref with my 2 favorites, put them on my bid card and leave the last spot blank, is that suicide? If they both cut me will I then not be eligible for the snap bids you all are talking about? Help!