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I don't think she was trying to be condescending, but just honest about the process. In these big, competitive recruitments, all PNMs need to be open minded. The truth is that most everyone loses a or some favorites, whether they had them going in or fell in love during the process. You'd be surprised at how many PNMs don't realize this will likely happen, so it's just natural to mention it so they'll be prepared.:) All chapters at Bama have a lot to offer, and all are big, so many women do feel they'll be able to fit somewhere within many of them -- that's why you're advised to be willing to give them all a chance. Favorites can change as the week goes on and you meet more members and learn more about the chapters. So as long as you're getting invites back, stick with the process. Then, if after pref, you know for sure that a place is not right for you, you don't have to indicate that you'd accept a bid. Many minds have been changed at pref, though, and plenty of PNMs have come to love houses they originally didn't see themselves in. Good luck during your recruitment!