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It’s totally normal! When I joined my chapter, I felt like other girls had these instant connections, and fit right in (like they were meant to be) while I didn’t have any of those connections or feelings. This resulted me in being MIA (to the very extent possible) during my New Member period. Things started turning around when I got my pledge family (who weren’t people I was expecting obviously b/c I didn’t know many people then but soon I felt so comfortable), and really when I ran for a position in the house, and got more involved, ultimately becoming chapter president. It sounds cliche but it’s really what you give it. Give yourself and your chapter some time. Keep an open mind, mingle (even if it’s hard sometimes), and put yourself out there. Maybe it’ll help once you get a pledge family (even if they might not be people you know initially). And if you still don’t like it, you have options. But really, just give yourself and the chapter some time; you’re there for a reason.