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You have already taken a bid from someone else so why not stick with it through the retreat and a few weeks? You could not have possibly met even a fraction of the sisters yet and you will get to know your pledge sisters as well. Rush is stressful and filled with a lot of measuring up. Now, relax and give your new house a chance. With so many actives and large pledge classes, everyone will not be your best friend but you will find your people. You will need to examine what is making you uncomfortable: if it is behavior that is dangerous or harmful, you need to give distance and protect yourself. If it is that you think you are better than your pledge sisters or the actives, you should do some soul searching. Every last house is filled with amazing women and this house has more than that. It is filled with amazing women who saw something in you that they admired. Stop thinking about the houses that let you go, their loss. They will not bid you next year if they let you go this year. I would say, give your new house a chance. You may find that the process worked after all. You will have an amazing fall filled with mixers, parties, sisterhood events, formals, and an unrivaled orientation to the campus. You will not get that as an independent. If you still feel like you don't fit in a month or so, you don't have to initiate. At this point, there is no rush to drop. It is hard but you should give it a chance. Your best friends are likely in that house!