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mom

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Don't listen to the tier nonsense. I was a Theta at a large Midwestern University and of 20+ houses, we were in the top 3. There were chasms between the cliques and a lot of typical infighting between competitive type A women. I transferred out of my school as a Senior and was relieved I would no longer have to deal with living with some of my "sisters" in our house. Don't get me wrong, I had some very close friends, but I gladly left my house behind and keep in touch with no one today. Looking back, I DID belong in that house as I can be type A and competitive myself, but if you have found a bond with a so-called middle tier house, do not hesitate to take it thinking you might hold out for a "better" house. I'm in my mid 40's and haven't given a second thought to the status of my college sorority since Pref Day in 1990. My daughter is rushing and fell absolutely in love with a "middle-tier" house because of 3 girls she met last April. The house is rushing her hard and she has so much in common with many of the women in the house. I am so happy for her (and maybe a little jealous?) I think she has a better chance of having that sisterhood that we all picture in our hearts before we rush. No one worth your time will ever judge you by the letters on your jersey. Pick the house with the heart and soul that matches yours.