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For girls who can’t me here knowing many from their high school, church, etc. (in stature and certain other areas in the region) the selection process can be about more than brief conversations. Things aren’t totally pre determined as invested - but ZTA e houses and some pnms from these areas come in with advantages (liked/good rep/certain friends) and disadvantages (bad rep/certain enemies). If you are rushing and an unknown - it is random. And does depend mostly on the conversations and impression you make. And there are plenty of “pleasant” conversations so you have to stand out in some way. Am suspect of girls who say “I’d fit better elsehwere”. With 400 plus girls in each house, you are going to find a subset of girls like you, despite the general rep of the house. I know smart, studious, girls who don’t go out much in “party” houses - who have found their niche, love their house, etc. . If you are “shy and reserved” I think you may have “problems” both standing out in recruitment and in finding your way in “any” house - because our houses are so big. Some girls do get into a house and then find a friend group elsewhere. No recruitment process is going to fix this. In some ways these girls have great benefits of knowing girls both from their house as well as beyond. \n\n\n\n\n