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my perspective

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I appreciate this sentiment A LOT, but I will say as someone involved in the "behind the scenes" work for my sorority the past two recruitments in a row, I can usually guess which 2-3 houses a girl is likely to end up in just based off her resume, social media, etc. I think the difference is that a PNM doesn't see herself the way a recruitment team sees her and PNMs are likely to get caught up in what they THINK a house is like before recruitment begins. I may be able to guess which houses she would ACTUALLY fit in with, because I know this campus really well, but she can only guess which houses fit her "idea" of a good fit. That's why it's so, so important for PNMs to let go of where they THINK they belong and go where they feel cherished, wanted, supported, etc.