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Poster Name:
imo

Poster Message:
There's a difference between not wanting to and not being able to be a member for 4 years. If you're going into recruitment with the attitude that you don't want to be an active member of your chapter for 4 years, please do us all a favor and don't go through at all. Yes, there are many girls who reach senior year and drop, but I'm willing to bet very few actually GO IN with the mindset of dropping once they reach junior year. And if you won't want to be involved as an active for four years, I find it hard to believe you'd be that involved as an alum for the rest of your life. But if you might not be able to do four years but WANT to be a super involved active for 3 years and need to leave to do an internship, graduate early, transfer, etc, that's still not great but it's different. If the concern is about financially affording the 4 years of dues, the usual response here is that if you can't afford to pay your dues, don't go through recruitment because it's unfair to sisters and other PNMs. So please do think long and hard about going through rush if you already have the thought of not being in the chapter for four years in the back of your mind.