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While I agree with not pre-deciding what houses you want and falling in love with houses when you don't know anyone, you can't tell people not to have favorites. They are excited. They are gonna research and try to see what the houses are like. And if they decide that AXO and Phi Mu are their favorites for now, then that's fine. It doesn't really matter. What matters is that when rush actually comes along that they give every house a shot and they see what houses they actually feel at home in now that they aren't just seeing them on social media. If you didn't have favorites before you went through rush, then you are part of the minority. Most people have a few houses that they are interested in the most before rush and it often changes during rush. Our responses to her should be actually answering her question, and then reminding her: 1. to keep an open mind and that she doesn't know anyone in the houses yet so everything she's seen, heard, or read is superficial and might not be true. Take everything with a grain of salt. 2. That all our houses are great, and when she goes through rush she needs to forget her favorites, have an open mind, and give everyone a chance. Opinions can drastically change when you actually talk to girls and see everything during rush. 3. Not to talk about her pre-determined favorites with other people because she doesn't know who they will tell or how she will actually feel during rush. 4. Not to get her hopes up about any house because we never know what might happen. 5. to not think about what houses are "good" or stereotypes of houses but actually look for what girls you have the best conversations with and what house you feel the most comfortable in. 6. to remember to treat every house equally and not act more interested at one house than the other because girls in different sororities talk to each other. Lets be helpful and use this website to answer girls questions to help them through rush, and not treat them like crap for asking a normal question. That doesn't show a good side of our greek life and it makes us look rude and unwelcoming.