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its ok

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hey girl, it seems that people on this thread arent being very helpful and im sorry about that. im a second year in my sorority and i felt the SAME way that you did last year. what youre feeling is completely and totally normal, in fact theres probably about 50 other girls in your PC who feel the same way. When this happened to me last year, i made an effort to go to every meal and ask for peoples numbers, basically invited myself to things. it sounds annoying i know, but i want you to realize that you are not being intentionally unincluded. the only way to make friends is to put yourself out there, sit with different people, ask them what their plans are/go out with them, ask them to see a movie or even something as simple as walking to meals together. I made a groupchat of all the girls in my sorority who lived in my dorm last year, and i would always walk to meals with the girls in my dorm and it created an instant friendship. remember, a lot of girls in your PC are nervous, some are probably a little awkward as introductions are always kinda hard. theres so many of you, but you will find a group of girls soon enough. just stick it out, give it until initiation. if you still feel this way by initiation time, definitely talk to your new member educator/older girl you trust, and ask them what you should do. remember, exec is there to help you! as far as those temporary bigs go, definitely tell your new member eductor about it. thats not okay of them to do. im so sorry. things will definitely get better! they did for me and it will for you too!