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OOS mom

Poster Message:
You really have 2 choices - Fight or Flight. If you choose to stay and fight, do it with full intensity. Go to every event, eat at the house, find your people. Then figure out what made you dislike the house and work to fix it - are the girls awkward? Figure out how to help them with social skills. Are they not presenting themselves in the best manner? Work to enforce the dress codes of the sorority. Look at the national site to see how the local chapter is struggling and what they should do better and then present that information to the right folks in a calm and respectful manner. Find like-minded sisters who sshare your concerns. Be the change you want to see. Or Flight - there is no shame in leaving a bad situation. Cut your losses, join some clubs, make friends in other houses or outside the greek system and rerush next year. Sure some houses will cut you out of spite for being true to yourself, but if you've made friends in other houses, they'll fight for you