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I'm hoping you can clear up a disagreement between myself and my dear mother. After reading this thread, I am pretty sure I am right, but clarification will make me feel better. Here is my (100% completely unrealistic) scenario: I get invited to XYZ (My legacy house), PDQ, and RST for Pref. Afterward, I rank them PDQ, RST and then XYZ. They rank me on their lists in this order: PDQ (3rd), RST (2nd), XYZ (1st). I would end up in PDQ, right? I'm a double legacy at XYZ, and while my mom is good with me making my own choices, that second person is insisting that I keep XYZ as long as they want me, through Pref, even if I am not interested in them (Meaning that I don't put them last to have them possibly removed from my schedule). My mom insists that if I go to XYZ's Pref, I will get them as my house, regardless of how I rank them and the houses rank me. She says that no matter what I pick and where I fall on another house's bid list, they always put legacies in their legacy house. I say she's wrong, because it's computerized and computers don't care about legacy status. Obviously I could love my legacy house or get cut by them, or ONLY end up with them on Pref, but I want to make sure I understand how this works. Thanks.