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I 100% do not mean this to belittle anyone's experiences or say that you're not trying your best to be a part of you house, but honestly sometimes I think when girls feel like their house has a bad sisterhood it has a lot more to do with how they perceive things than how they really are. I think to really feel like you're a part of your house you need to put yourself out there. Get involved in the house, sit with new people at meals, hang out there between classes. I think most houses won't go out of there way to make every single girl feel like they are the most special, wonderful person on earth (bc there's 400, it's impossible). But what you put in you get out. I think there's a cycle where girls don't feel like they belong so they spend less time at the house and with sisters, and because of that they genuinely start to not belong.