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Poster Name:
agreed

Poster Message:
I'm a senior and I agree. I have had a similar experience...I picked my chapter based on the wrong reasons (tent talk, legacy status, mascot/colors, and they put on a great recruitment). Recruitment is kind of fake tbh. Just because you love a chapter during recruitment doesn't mean that you'll be the best fit in that chapter. I wish I had looked for less superficial things in choosing my chapter. My experience is almost over, and it was okay I guess, but I think I could have made lifelong friends if I had been less superficial about my rankings. Who cares if you are in a "top" house if you can't genuinely connect with the girls and become friends? I often think that I should have made a different decision, especially since my real friends are in a much lower ranked houses than the one I am in. Anyway, I hope no one else makes the same mistake that I did, but unfortunately I know that there will be girls who do.