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Poster Name:
sophomore pnm

Poster Message:
1. To start off, it was not my top choice on preference day. My top choice was a house I loved and felt was a good fit for me because my personality matched well with those of that house and the house was everything I wanted out of being in a sorority (involvement, sisterhood, good reputation). The house I pledged was a house I kept on my preference day list for the sake of "maximizing options". The girls in the house were nice and genuine, but I could not see myself in this house. Once I pledged, I decided to try it out because they always say to "trust the process" and maybe I was really meant to be here. In brief, I felt like the sisterhood was severely lacking. I could not establish a true friendship with any of these girls. Any time I would tell someone what my sorority was, they would be shocked and tell me that I definitely didn't belong in that sorority. Ironically, they would tell me I belonged in the sorority I originally listed as my top choice during rush. As time went on, I felt more and more uncomfortable coming to the house and socializing with these girls that I finally made the decision to drop. After dropping, all these girls (even some I was on good terms with) stopped acknowledging my existence or would be hateful towards me. That is not the kind of sisterhood I want to be apart of.