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Poster Name:
Aunt Gin

Poster Message:
Here's what I tell everybody about affiliating: wait. Each chapter is different, as you know, with its own personality. Definitely let them know you're on campus and would like to get acquainted. (Frankly, I'm not sure if they affiliate or not - if they don't it's not personal, it's an across-the-board thing, if they do, they'll affiliate every DG on campus if they wish). If you're invited, go to the house for some lunches, get to know the girls. If you like them and they like you, full steam ahead! But if do affiliate and find you're not compatible, your only recourse would be to resign from the fraternity. For, like, forever. Right now, the decision is yours, so I'd go slow, connect and see if that's the best path for you. If you don't affiliate, you'll still be a member and can join alumnae groups on down the line.