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My regret

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I'm going to be super honest and please remember this was 3 years ago and I lived in a bubble, and I've regret saying this since it happened. So I came from a large HS in AL. There were girls in almost sorority on campus, but DG was brand new and it would have been a big deal for myself or any other girl from my school to "end up there." I preffed there and 2 other houses and at the time I was truly terrified I would end up in DG and people would think bad of me because girls from where I was from just didn't go there. I actually liked the parties, but I was really wrapped up in name. So the girl at pref asked if I could see myself there and I told her, more or less, I enjoyed how kind they were but I couldn't imagine what anyone from home would say if I pledged there and that I would probably be in another chapter. And guys the second I said it was the worst I ever felt about myself. I wasn't trying to be hurtful or snobby, it was just admitting my deepest fear to someone I didn't know that well. But the girl preffing me smiled and said she hoped I ended up happy and that she had really enjoyed talking to me everyday. She said she came in not knowing anyone and wouldn't change that because it led her to where she was. I honestly couldn't believe she was that nice about it. I always wanted to find her and apologize, but I never did. Now that I'm older I realize I could have been happy in any of hose 3 houses, even the new kid on the block, and eff what other people think.