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First of all, you're not stupid :). Basically, if you are a legacy to Sigma Kappa for example (using a house we don't have here on purpose) through your mom/sister/grandmother, Sigma Kappa will invite you back for Philantrophy round, even if they have no intention of pledging you, as a "courtesy" to your mom/sister/grandmother that you're a legacy through. It gives you-and your legacy house-another chance to talk and connect, so that your legacy house can show your mom/sister/grandmother that they gave you every possible chance before releasing you. After Philantrophy, houses will drop the vast majority of their legacies that they know they don't want to pledge. Why? It gives them the chance to invite girls back that they feel fit in better, and it also gives you a chance to find other houses that you fit in to better. If they keep you through sisterhood and then drop you, it just gets your hopes up for no reason, and if they keep you through pref, as a legacy, they have to put you on their first bid list, meaning that if you list them first on your pref card, that's an automatic match. So, if you're a legacy to any house, don't be surprised if they cut you after Philantrophy. It may hurt your feelings, but eventually you'll see that it was for the best. Good luck!!