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Great comment! Realize that a lot of what is posted here is based on old perceptions that actives get from mama or grandma. Pick the place where you feel the best, and if you get a sorority that wasn't your first choice, give them a chance. The bottom line is that group wanted you, wouldn't you rather be in a relationship where you are wanted rather than one with a group that didn't pick you? I've seen pnms drop because they got their third choice and then they have a terrible year. If they go through recruitment again, odds are they won't get a better opportunity, if they get a bid at all. A lot of sororities will doubt your commitment, and with so many pnms this year they would rather go with someone who is going to be in the group for 4 years.