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Be Yourself

Poster Message:
Several people bring up the good point that this is your chance to start over (very true, as college is soooooo different than high school). But remember one thing: Do not try to be somebody you are not during recruitment. Either: 1. You will come across as fake (and get cut). 2. You will end up in a chapter who thinks you are totally outgoing and bubbly, and you won't fit in. Be as nice as you can be (...remember, you are a guest in someone else's house) to everyone you meet, but BE YOURSELF while you are doing it. Trust me, there are going to be chapters who like you for who you are. Finally, don't be crushed when/if you get cut by some of the "top" chapters, who want the former cheerleader/debutante extrovert types. If you are a reserved person, chances are you would not enjoy being with the majority of the members. One of the joys of Greek life is having sisters who are going to ultimately give you unconditional acceptance. Some people really "come out of their shell" in college, some folks stay more reserved. Just be who you really are.