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Poster Name:
ahah

Poster Message:
well the first reason why i rejected my bid from deeg was that i saw the girls who also had bid cards from deeg on bid day (all in the lobby of bailey waiting to be picked up) and they were all of the mean and shallow girls that i already had disliked and who had been rude to my friends and i. i would not have stayed in a pledge class that they were in. what made me uncomfortable while rushing deeg though was that it seemed so rehearsed. i watched members walk away from convos with pnms, rolling their eyes and frowning to other members as if to complain like "ugh this girl sucked" or "im miserable."then, as that same girl walked up to me, she'd turn on a big bright smile and act like we were best friends. it was TOO clear to me who was a priority to them and who was not, and it made me uncomfortable to see the difference in treatment between the "priority" girls and "the others." it made me feel guilty about being liked, which is so messed up on so many levels. beyond that, I didn't enjoy a single conversation. they're generally pretty bad at conversing, unless they were asking me questions, and they only did that when it was clear that they had been "assigned" to extract info from me: questions like "do you think you and your friend group will want to join the same house?" or "so about your roommate, X-- is she as social as you are?" So except for these tactful questions, I was always leading the conversation tbh, felt kinda like talking to a wall when the only thing I was getting in response to anything I said was "yes, totally" or "I totally get you" or "uh huh, for sure". it all just felt fake and awkward, and they basically took a PC of the elitist bullies that terrorized my graduating class first semester