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Your first statement had a good question. But then you ended it with being nasty, especially about something you clearly do not understand. Look at it like this, when you see a job opening and apply for a job, they screen you based on your resume. You may never have an interview or meet with anyone in person before they decide you are not a fit for that position or their company. Sororities can tell, from the most part, who is a fit by looking at social media, resumes and recs. Girls have all summer to advertise themselves. If your daughter did not do this, then she didn't take advantage of that opportunity. And if a sorority knows a girl is not a fit, why would she want to be there anyway? Your daughter needs to focus on the chapters that want her, because every single one of them has amazing girls, a great philanthropy, mixers and social events and sisterhood. Is this a rough process? Yes, it is and it can be downright awful for some. There are other ways to have a sisterhood on campus through women's orgs, if sorority rush isn't a fit. For girls who are introverts, shy and can't open up quickly to a stranger, this isn't an easy process. Recognizing strengths and weaknesses is an important life skill and you should help steer your daughter towards her strengths instead of attacking an entire system.