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Girl I hear this so much!! It’s really easy to just say “trust the process” but let’s be honest for a sec and acknowledge that the process fails some girls big time. The system is far from perfect and you have to be a strong b— to even want to put yourself through it. Everyone has to decide for themselves if it is worth it. For me it was, but last year I knew lots of girls who dropped recruitment for the very reasons you said. Everything worked out fine for them too outside of Greek life. My advice is to accept your bid & give it a try, especially if you liked the houses you preffed. If you give it time you will know if it is really for you or not. Sorry your friends had it so rough & hope they land somewhere they can feel like they are welcomed.