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Mutual selection is such a crap term, I wish it would go away. The reality is it’s only “mutual” if more houses are inviting you back than there are parties in the next round. If all 6 sisterhoods invited you to Pref, THEN your priorities are considered. Or if 4 do and your top 2 were part of that 4. Otherwise, you’re only going back wherever you get invited and yes I agree there’s nothing mutual about that. Pref is where it changes. If you have a Pref invitation and maximize your options when you sign your Pref card, then your rankings are considered first. If you’re on both house’s top bid list, you get your first choice. Or if your top choice hasn’t made quota no matter where you are on the bidlist, if your name comes up before they make quota, you get your 1st choice. The system is set up to place 80-90% of PNMs attending Pref with their #1 choice.