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Because "mutual selection" means that neither party is required to extend or accept membership if either feels it is not a good fit. So when a sorority's ranked list eliminates the possibility of you getting a bid from them, the "mutual" part between you has ended. Believe us when we say that it is far better for you to find that out as early in the process as possible! That's why the first round releases are so big. This allows you to focus on chapters that are your actual options, where you are wanted, where they feel you fit with them, where you have a chance at a bid. You are never forced to accept a bid you don't want, but the process is doing you a favor by getting you to take a second and third look at chapters that weren't initially on your radar. You'd be surprised how your opinions can change during the week, so don't sell yourself short, just keep going back where you are invited. You can drop if you want, you can SIP after pref if you want, but there is a downside to both if you make an EMOTIONAL decision you will likely regret.