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Poster Name:
Truth

Poster Message:
No one invites you to pref if they didn’t want you! You will be somewhere on their bid list. An invitation to pref means the chapter is willing to give you a bid. As far as if it’s your first or second choice - depends on where you are on their bid list. If you are on their top bid list (say quota is 50 and you are in their top 50, and you rank them #1 - you are matched). If you are say 64 BUT 14 of the women ranked on their first bid list match elsewhere - then you are matched. If they fill before they get to your spot on the list and your second house hasn’t filled then you would match to the second house. However, if both of your houses fill to quota before they get to you, then you can match with quota additions. So sometimes a PNM that is way down the list will still match to a chapter. And no one in the chapter outside of perhaps the membership chairman will know, and no one will care. However, if you single intentional pref (suicide) and list only one of the 2 chapters you are invited to, you are NOT eligible to match through quota additions. If you only got invited back to one house you are, and you will get a bid there. So unless you absolutely would refuse a bid from your second chapter you should maximize your options.