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Poster Name:
chin up

Poster Message:
Last year, the number for my friends from my floor ranged from 3 to 16. Those that did have 16 did not have their top 16. There were absolutely people that were crying and very upset. Please don't let that happen to you. It is discouraging and you will wonder why houses didn't like you enough to invite you back. Know this, it is not personal. The most popular houses (who would get 99% returns) have to cut like 80% of women. Houses that didn't get as high returns last year are allowed to invite more back. This is designed so that the more popular houses don't string pnms along until the end. It is best if you aren't going to get a bid to ABC house that you know that now and can focus on the houses that you have a real possibility of a bid from. It gives you time to get to know them better as the length of the parties get longer and more real interactions can take place. Try and stay positive! When you get your invites back, don't focus on those that got away. Instead focus on the ones that see something in you that they really admire and like!!