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Poster Name:
rush

Poster Message:
I don't agree with this at all. This is also a PNMs experience and if they didn't feel a fit just like a sorority did not feel a fit for a PNM, does it then mean the PNM should feel unwanted or less than by the sororities that did drop them? Or it simply wasn't a fit? It's a long term time and financial committment by all and it should feel like a fit otherwise it may be a very expensive risk. Some people might not have the means to take that risk - committ, hope then drop. And this type of thinking continues to perpetuate the idea that a chapter is unwanted or less than. And that girls not extended invites or bids are unwanted or less than. It works both ways.