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it's the time

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I don't know why pnm's think they'd get dropped for showing love for a chapter that has taken them this far in the process. They clearly are interested in you. You're not going to blow it with sincerity at crunch time. I'll tell you what I said. I am very direct and was not uncomfortable saying, very sincerly and humbly, "I would love to be at your pref tomorrow." This was very natural and appropriate in the moment during my conversation with an active and there is nothing wrong with being direct if you're sincere and not acting. You just don't want to be desperate like 'if I don't get this house I'll die' kind of thing. But if you're sincere and in the moment and being yourself, it will be fine to say what you are actually thinking. This is the time to do that.