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Poster Name:
Be Yourself

Poster Message:
The reality of it is everyone is going to get “judged”, right or wrong, in rush. There will be a ton of “cuts” before PNMs even visit the sororities in person. Those continue through the rounds. Honestly, a lot of it for some sororities is who you know that is already in that sorority, so if you don’t have a connection and get cut from a number early don’t take it personal. It isn’t a knock on you. A lot of other people are in the same boat., so you aren’t getting singled out. What you need to do is focus on being yourself and making connections with the girls in the sororities you do visit. Find then girls and sorority you click with the best and join them. There are tons of girls in every chapter, and there will be girls that you don’t get along with or get “judged” by even in the sorority you join. That’s reality. You just have to find a core group to do college with and some of those people will likely not even be the same sorority. It will all work out. Be yourself, find the sorority that best fits you (I promise you will, they are all great) and quit worrying about what you think other people might think about you. Doing that can cause you to miss out on great experience because you are constantly focusing on the negative and what you are worried might happen. Live in the moment and enjoy what actually happens. I promise it will work out.