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The comment above is awesome as heck but I'd also like to add that you've actually met such a small portion of the chapter it might be kind of difficult for you to judge where you'd fit in (which is why chapters have more say then pnms during this whole process). They recruit based on values so just because you arent clicking with the girl you're talking to doesnt mean theres no one in the chapter you'll click with. They keep inviting you back which means from what they've learned about you they think you might fit in. Their seemingly innocent questions (like asking about your relationship with your family) tell them a ton about your personality and values. This is why we always say trust the process. As long as you're honest you'll end up where you belong, the chapters are trained to figure it out. I'd also go far as to say you should accept the bid even if you think you dont click. You have until initiation to drop and rerush next year so there's no harm in trying the house out and seeing if you end up falling in love. I know a few girls who got their last choice and are now some of the most active in their chapter and are absolutely in love with it. Trust the process and everything will work out <3