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Sorry, but...

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I feel really bad reading this. You sound like a really nice, intelligent girl. However, it sounds like you have self-esteem issues that go beyond which house you belonged to. It might be easy for me to say, but you should have embraced the fact you had a group of girls who appreciated you for who you are, and could help provide you the support to feel stronger self-esteem, etc. Honestly, you are going to have these same thoughts the rest of your life ("...oh, I am inferior because I went to ASU instead of UCLA/Stanford" "...oh, I am inferior because I did not graduate with honors") unless you start realizing other peoples' opinions don't matter if you are doing your best. The fraternity brothers of your former boyfriend are idiots. It sounds like your ex is a tool as well. You should find someone who respects you. But respect yourself, first. A lot of judging in the Greek system is due to people trying to make themselves feel better by marking others as beneath them. Fortunately, there are a lot of positive, fun folks in the Greek system as well. Greek life aside, look at why you have such negative self-perceptions. My grandma used to tell me, "Nobody is going to like you if you don't like yourself first." Hang in there.